Below is a list of BDSM activities that you may find helpful in guiding you to learn more about me.

For each item provide two answers: Only things things I like or somewhat like are on this list

 
  • - For Experience Answer YES or NO next to each item to indicate DONE that activity.

  • - Indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5 or as a NO.

    NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances.

    1 means I don't want to do, or like this activity, but would not object if it is asked.

    2 means that I am willing to do this activity, but it holds no special appeal to me.

    3 means that I usually like this activity, & would like to do this on an occasional basis.

    4 means I like this activity, & would like to experience this on a regular basis.

    5 means the activity is a wild turn-on, & would like to do this as often as possible.

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    Activity: for subs
    Experience
    yes/no
    Willingness
    No or 0-5
    		Notes
    Abrasion
    no
    2
    		Can come from a very hard whiping
    Anal plugs (small)
    no
    4

    Anal plugs (large)
    no
    3

    Animal roles
    yes
    4

    Beating (soft)
    no
    5

    Beating (hard)
    no
    5

    Blindfolds
    yes
    3

    Being serviced (sex)
    yes
    5

    Biting
    yes
    3

    Bondage (light)
    yes
    4

    Bondage (heavy)
    no
    3

    Boot worship
    no
    5

    Cages
    no
    3

    Caning
    no
    4

    Cells/Closet
    no
    3

    Chains
    no
    3

    Chastity belts
    no
    4

    Chaueffering
    yes
    3

    Chores (domestic)
    no
    3

    Chosen food for
    yes
    4

    Chosen clothing for
    yes
    4

    Clothespins
    no
    5

    Cock rings/straps
    no
    4

    Cock whipping
    no
    3

    Cock & Ball Torture
    no
    4

    Collars (private)
    yes
    5

    Collars (public)
    yes
    5
    		not a sub I owned..
    Cuffs (metal)
    no
    3

    Cuffs (leather)
    yes
    5

    Dildoes (anal)
    no
    4

    Dildoes (vaginal)
    yes
    5

    Erotic dance (private)
    yes
    3

    Erotic dance (for audience)
    no
    2

    Examinations (physical)
    no
    3

    Exhibitionism
    yes
    3
    		at a club once (light)
    Face slapping
    yes
    4

    Giving orders
    yes
    5

    Foot worship
    yes
    5

    Gags (cloth)
    no
    4

    Gags (phallic)
    no
    3

    Gags (rubber)
    no
    2

    Gags (tape)
    no
    3

    Gates of Hell (male)
    no
    4

    Golden showers
    no
    3

    Hairbrushes
    no
    4

    Hair pulling
    yes
    4

    Hand jobs (receiving)
    yes
    4

    Harems (serving w/other subs)
    no
    3

    Harnessing (leather)
    no
    4

    Harnessing (rope)
    no
    2

    Head (giving)
    yes
    3

    Head (getting)
    yes
    5

    High heel Worship
    yes
    5

    Homage with Tongue
    yes
    4

    Hot waxing
    no
    3

    Hoods
    no
    3

    Housework
    no
    4

    Human puppy dog
    yes
    4

    Humiliation in private
    yes
    5

    Humiliation in public
    no
    3

    Ice cubes
    yes
    3

    Including others (dommes)
    no
    2

    Initiation Rites
    no
    3

    Kneeling
    yes
    5

    Knife play
    no
    4

    Leather clothing
    no
    5

    Leather restraints
    yes
    4

    Lecturing
    no
    3

    Licking (non sexual)
    no
    4

    Manicures (giving)
    yes
    3
    		this one I like both giving and receiving
    Massage (receiving)
    yes
    4

    Name change (for scene)
    yes
    3

    Nipple clamps
    no
    4

    Nipple play/torture
    no
    3

    Oral/anal play
    yes
    4

    Over-the-knee spanking
    no
    5

    Orgasm control
    yes
    5

    Pain (mild)
    no
    5

    Pain (severe)
    no
    5

    Phone sex
    yes
    3

    Piercing (perm)
    no
    4
    		this is not a must
    Punishment scenes
    no
    4

    Pussy worship
    yes
    5

    Restrictive rules on behaviour
    yes
    5

    Riding crops
    yes
    5

    Rituals
    no
    4

    Saran wrapping
    no
    3

    Scratching (giving)
    yes
    4

    Serving as Ashtray
    no
    3

    Serving as Furniture
    no
    4

    Serving as Maid
    no
    3

    Serving Orally
    yes
    4

    Serving as Waitress/Waiter
    no
    4

    Shaving (body hair)
    yes
    5

    Speech restrictions
    yes
    4

    Spreader bars
    no
    4

    Standing in corner
    no
    4

    Strap-on-dildos (sucking)
    no
    5

    Strapping - full body
    no
    4
    		only safe parts
    Vibrator (on genitals)
    yes
    3

    Violet Wand (elect toy)
    no
    3

    Video (watching others)
    yes
    3

    Voyeurism (watching others)
    yes
    4

    Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
    no
    2

    Wearing symbolic jewelery
    no
    3

    Whipping
    no
    5

    Wooden Paddles
    no
    4

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