Never, never lie to your Lady, even about the smallest things.  The first time you lie makes the second time easier, and before you know it, nothing will be real  anymore.

Learn to pick up after your Lady as you do yourself. (Learn to pick up after yourself if you need to.)

Ask for Her advice.  Then take it.  If you don't feel She is better at making most decisions, why is She your Lady?

Ask Her for reassurance when you need it.

Unless there is a fire, don't interrupt your Lady when She speaks

Offer your opinions courteously, and only if you are allowed to offer them. (Always remember what a privilege it is to be allowed to speak at all.)

Acknowledge your mistakes and thank your Lady for caring enough to point them out.

When approaching your Lady, wait patiently in a submissive pose for Her to acknowledge you.

Once She has made a decision, do not beg or whine, but carry out Her wishes.

When your Lady speaks, focus all attention on Her.  Don't look around, look at your fingernails, watch TV, etc.

Never manipulate your Lady into awkward positions :  Instead of asking, "Do I look good?" ask, "Does this look please You, Ma'am, or would You prefer________?"  Narrow down Her preferences without seeking flattery.

Never ask your Lady to punish you.  A slave has no place determining what actions are punishable, and by asking, you are diminishing the effect it is meant to have on you.

 Learn when you have said enough.  Then shut up.

If She compliments you on something you've done - do it the same way the next time.  If She comments favorably on your make-up or dress, use the same technique next time.

Serve without drawing attention to yourself.  The ashtray doesn't need to be emptied every time it's used (unless, of course, your Lady demands it); not every string needs to be picked up from the floor.  Never behave in such a way that your Lady is assaulted by your service.

Don't nag.  If there are things She needs to know about, tell Her once.  If She is a busy woman who tends to forget, purchase a small whiteboard for the refrigerator and make a list.

In public, you are still responsible for Her needs.  If She needs a refill on Her drink, get it for Her, etc.  Retrieve dropped silverware or napkins.  Never sit if your Lady is standing.

Unless She tells you otherwise, walk a couple paces behind Her and to Her side.  Do not set the pace; if She walks quickly, learn to keep up.

 Offer to open doors for Her.

Always, always, always, defer to Her in public, even if you are in complete disagreement.  Save your concerns for later, when the two of you are alone.

Ask for permission to engage in free time activities.  Train yourself to finish the tasks She has given you before approaching Her for free time.

Accept and rely on Her advice about your personal growth, your physical health and your appearance.  Her comments reflect Her desires, not your failures. Remember you exist to please Her - no one else.

Never intrude on Her privacy.  If spaces are off limits to you, do not disturb them, and more, do not ask prying questions about them.  You may be on a "need to know" basis in your Lady's life.  (once you have crossed that line, you will have to earn Her trust again.)

 On the other hand, make every effort to keep nothing private from Her.  There should be nothing about your life, your finances, your emotional states, your medical condition, or your past that She doesn't have access to if She wants it.  You are HER property.  Everything about you belongs entirely to Her.

 Find ways to retain "slave space."  Journal, fantasize, or do whatever it takes to retain a submissive and docile attitude.  Try speaking to your Lady in the third person (i.e. "This slave wishes to _____," etc.)  It's hard to be arrogant when speaking of yourself as a slave.

Offer Her reassurance if She needs it.  Just like you, your Lady is human and may need occasional support.

Remember that you have no more authority because She is ill or incapacitated.  You are slave regardless of Her emotional state or Her health.

Never say "no" to your Lady.  At most, use a phrase like, "This slave would prefer not to, but will gladly defer to her Lady's will."  (Of course you can be less formal, too.)

Lady gets the metaphoric "remote." (As well as the real one.)

Your Lady's meal should be served before your own.  Do not begin eating until your Lady has begun.

Turn your Lady's bed down at night.  Ask permission to sleep in Her bed, unless your arrangements do not allow it.

If you are in your Lady's bed, do not leave it without Her permission or Her prior command.

Always be clean

Never believe that you are through with training.  You aren't that good.

If you don't understand, ask.

Remember that your submission is no more a "gift" to Her than Her domination is a "gift" to you.  You are two parts of a whole.

In public, make certain your pride and loyalty in your Lady cannot be questioned.

Be prepared for anything.

Take responsibility for disciplining yourself in the areas you can.  Don't make your Lady's job harder.

Learn to move gracefully and attractively.  Don't be afraid to ask your Lady for Her advice in the area of form.

Don't try to manipulate with tears.  If a fair and reasonable punishment or reprimand makes you cry, it's often healthy and cleansing.

Expect your Lady to make occasional mistakes, just as you do.  Never, ever berate Her for them.

Always be willing to learn new things:  erotic dance, massage, etc.  Use them to serve your Lady's needs

Create an environment that your Lady wants to be in.  Hiser home should be calm and clean - Her slaves should be pleasant and agreeable.

Watch your language.  Learn how to express yourself without swearing. It's unattractive.

If your Lady feels like the Queen of Her world, keep doing whatever it is you're doing.

Note:I didn't write these but changed them from Master to Lady